About us

💬 How It All Began…

Hey, I’m Kinga — the founder of Childfree Army, the voice behind @travelsoverkids, and someone who spent years silently wondering if something was wrong with her.

You see, while my Facebook page was full of friends my age posting ultrasounds and announcing pregnancies, I didn’t feel like it was something I wanted for myself. I was dreaming of travels, peace, freedom — and not being woken up at 4 a.m. by anything other than a sunrise in a new country.

And even though I felt happy for them, I couldn’t ignore this growing truth inside me:
I don’t think motherhood is for me.

But every time I tried to say that out loud, I was met with a wall of noise:
“You’ll change your mind.”
“You’ll regret it one day.”
“Who will take care of you when you’re old?”
“You’ll never know true love until you have kids.”

They said it with a smile, with concern, with judgment (sometimes all at once).
But the message was clear: you’re wrong to feel this way.

So, I stopped.
I stopped explaining.
I stopped talking.
I started saying “Maybe one day” and quickly changed the subject just to get through family dinners. I laughed off comments I didn’t find funny. I told myself to keep quiet — because I was tired.

Tired of defending something that I felt was right for me.
And in that silence, I felt more alone than ever.

So I waited. I waited to ‘change my mind,’ like everyone said I would.
That moment never came. Instead, as I grew older, it only became clearer and clearer that my heart was set on a different life...one that didn’t include raising kids.

✨ The Turning Point

Then one day, while mindlessly scrolling through Instagram, I stumbled across @childfreeguru. She was speaking boldly about living a happy, full life without children, and not just accepting it, but celebrating it.

The message was clear:
“Not everyone wants kids. There is nothing wrong with your choice.”

I remember just sitting there, staring at the screen with tears in my eyes. Because until that moment, I truly thought I was the only one who felt that way.

I thought I was broken for not wanting what everyone else seemed to want.

But in that very moment, something shifted.

I found there was a whole world of us — women, men, couples, solo adventurers — who had made the same choice: to live freely. And for the first time in a long time, I felt understood. I felt strong.

Because being childfree wasn’t something I had to defend anymore.
It was something I could finally embrace — with pride.

🗣️ I Decided To Speak Up

After years of feeling like I had to stay quiet just to keep the peace, I started speaking up.

I began sharing my story on Instagram — the laughs, the travels, the freedom of living childfree by choice.

The comments came rolling in:
“Why do you have to talk about it?”
“Being childfree isn’t something to brag about.”
“Jeezzz… having no kids is not a flex. Just enjoy your life and be quiet.”
And the classic: “You’ve made not having kids your whole personality.”

But somewhere along the way, something shifted.

Amidst the criticism and the side-eyes, something beautiful started to happen.
I began receiving comments and messages like:
“Thank you for talking about it. I feel less alone.”
“I always thought there was something wrong with me.”
 “I’m so tired of being told I’ll change my mind whenever I open up.”

And that, right there, is what made it all worth it...

Those words from people who finally felt seen and understood meant more to me than any judgment I could face.

Because when I shared my truth, I wasn’t just healing myself — I was reaching others who had once felt as alone as I did.

I wasn’t going to remain silent anymore.
I had finally found my voice.

And now, I was ready to speak louder than ever.
I was ready to shout about it. I wanted to reach as many people as possible who are still unsure, still doubting, still being told 'they will change their mind'.

🚀 Introducing Childfree Army

That’s how Childfree Army was born.

A movement, wrapped in merch.
Wearable rebellion.

They’re more than just tees, mugs, or totes — they’re declarations.

Yes — the products are funny. But they’re also fierce.

Each one says:
✨ “I exist. I chose this life. And I’m done apologizing for it.”

That’s impact. That’s visibility. That’s how we change the narrative.

Because you’re doing more than expressing yourself.
You’re making this lifestyle visible. And that visibility could be the sign someone else needs.

Maybe there’s someone out there right now, quietly nodding through another family dinner, tired of smiling while their choices are questioned — again and again.

If even one person feels seen, heard, and understood because of a bag you carry or a shirt you wear.

In my eyes?
That’s worth it.

📢 Our Legacy: Making a Difference for Future Generations

It’s about rewriting the narrative. It’s about building a future where someone doesn’t have to go through what we did just to be understood.

Imagine the day when someone says, “I don’t want kids,” and the response is a genuine, “I respect your decision.” A world where we don’t hear, “You’ll change your mind when you're older,” but instead, “Your feelings are valid, and your choice is yours to make.”

And it starts with us. Right here, right now. With every story we share, every bold post, every tote bag in the wild, every shirt worn with pride that makes someone pause and think :"Wait... I am not the only one ?!" 

Maybe it reaches the person who’s still unsure. Still overwhelmed by expectations. You might be the reason they feel a little lighter, a little prouder, a little more free.

This is the world we’re building — together. The world where choosing freedom, peace, adventure—or simply a life without kids—is not just accepted, but celebrated. That’s a legacy worth leaving. And you can be a part of it.

Why Am I Doing This?

Because I wish someone had told me earlier that I wasn’t broken. I wish I had someone saying out loud what I had only dared to think. That it’s okay not to want kids. That you’re still whole, still worthy, still enough.

I wish I had seen just one person in my real life proudly living a childfree life — not apologizing for it, not sugar-coating it, just owning it.

Because for too long, I felt like I had to explain, defend, or shrink myself just to make others comfortable.

Because I wish I knew there was an entire childfree community out there. Literally millions of us who’ve been quietly carrying that same weight. Who’ve smiled through uncomfortable questions. Who’ve said “maybe one day” or kept quiet to end the conversation or avoid another 'You'll change your mind' comment.

It’s about celebrating the childfree choice.

It’s about creating space for childfree stories.

It’s about normalizing what’s been pushed to the margins for far too long.

It’s about finally hearing someone say, “Me too.”

Who Is This for?

This isn’t just for people without kids. It’s for people with clarify, the proudly childfree. The ones who finally found their voice and aren’t afraid to use it and help others still searching for theirs.

This is for those of us who are ready to do more than fight in comment sections.

We’re ready to turn heads at the family BBQ, start conversations in the checkout line, and make people think twice just by walking into the room with a tote bag that says what we used to be afraid to say out loud.

We’re done dodging awkward family questions with a fake smile.
We’re not here to whisper anymore — we’re here to cause a little discomfort.
We’re making a statement- we’re shouting what we were once told to whisper.

We’re reclaiming space in a world that often tries to silence or sideline us.

✨ Let’s Keep Shouting

We’re turning the volume up — with sarcasm with heart, and with some passive-aggressive merch.

Because this is how change happens.
And it starts with people like you, showing up exactly as you are.

💥 Join the Movement

This is your invitation to be loud, proud, and completely unapologetic about the life you’ve chosen.

So here’s how you can make noise with us:

👉 Share the message — Post, tag, talk. Speak your truth online and off. You never know who needs to hear it.

👉 Browse the shop — Grab something that speaks your truth (and maybe makes Aunt Karen raise an eyebrow).

👉 Be seen — Because when you take up space, you give someone else permission to do the same.

Let’s stop whispering and start shouting. Let’s make our voices louder and impossible to ignore.